Tabitha Ravenair Vr'zzek, maiden name Bearhaven, was born on the 3rd Tildus of Bloodmas in 23BA to Lord Arden Swordarm Bearhaven and Lady Olivia Riftun Bearhaven. Though she is older than her cousin Illuzi Bearhaven, her uncle Lord Roysen Bearhaven refused to consider her the 'heir' of the household because he was the older of the Bearhaven siblings. Beyond this, her mother's unimportant noble house was not considered worthy by her uncle, further diminishing her worth in the family.
Tabitha grew up as quite an introverted child. Despite living in the same estate house as her cousin Illuzi, Tabitha was never particularly close to her, as Kaarina Bearhaven was particularly over protective of her daughter.
At the age of 15, on the 1st Morndus of Omnifel 8BA, Tabitha became engaged to Lord Odric Krur Vr'zzek. On the Long Day of Sunmas 4BA, she married him and moved to Vanwyn, a small town on the border of Quell. Their marriage is a happy one, though it is an open secret one part of their success is that both Tabitha and her husband are gay and have a partner on the side.
On the 2nd Thordus of Mistfel, 0ÆR, Tabitha and Odric adopted two children, Kallisa Vr'zzek and Wehn Vr'zzek.